Thursday, July 28, 2011

30 Day Infertility Blog Challenge: Day 27

27.If you had known that you would have trouble conceiving, what would you have done differently in life? If you already knew, did that knowledge affect your other life choices?

Honestly, nothing.  Except that we wouldn't have spent a year and a half charting temperatures, peeing on sticks, and hoping.  We could have gone straight to an RE.  We could have planned better, I think.  For Hubby it would have meant an explanation for a lot of things a lot sooner, maybe more peace of mind.  Because he would have known before he wanted kids, and he could have dealt with it earlier.  Then again, maybe we wouldn't have ended up together...I think he would have felt guilty coming into the relationship with the knowledge that he couldn't have kids.  

Who knows, really?  Things ended up the way they did.  Can't go back, can't change them.  We can only move forward.

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