After talking to my mom (yes, I still ask my mom for advice) who spent 10 years working with an Autism program in the schools, I've decided to call the pedi and take P in. I'm going to ask for an evaluation. It could just be that he is strong willed, big personality. It could just be that he's super smart and gets absorbed in the things he is doing. (Don't even try talking to me when I'm reading. I won't hear you. It's like that.) But I've worked myself up into a tizzy worrying now. Actually allowing myself to worry. I even took books out of the library on some topics.
Just for the sake of record keeping, the things that are bothering me (and that bothered my mom) are
- obsessive behaviors
- difficult to engage at times (gets so absorbed with things that he will not respond to you)
- no change in how he deals with his brother - basically ignores him, including his safety, most of the time
- discipline, talking do not help with hitting and throwing. no change in that behavior.
Again, this could all be completely normal. Normal is a broad range. But I'm going to feel better if I have him evaluated and find out.
I think you are being very proactive by setting up an appointment. We had Chloe evaluated by Infant Toddler services several months back because we were concerned about a speech delay. Even if they do find an issue, in my opinion it's better to know early so you can start treatment or therapy. Good luck with everything!
ReplyDeleteVery good. Keep us posted!
ReplyDeleteI think you are brave mama to go forward when some would wait and see. It is always good to get professional opinions & then you can make decisions in where to go with all the information. Please don't be afraid of the diagnosis, if they do determine ASD. I love how you describe your boy. I feel like I can just see all of that raw energy that he exudes & it will just be a matter of learning to harness all that energy in a positive way to help him learn in the way that works best for him. Obviously, since he is already reading, you are up for the challenge.
ReplyDeleteI think you are brave mama to go forward when some would wait and see. It is always good to get professional opinions & then you can make decisions in where to go with all the information. Please don't be afraid of the diagnosis, if they do determine ASD. I love how you describe your boy. I feel like I can just see all of that raw energy that he exudes & it will just be a matter of learning to harness all that energy in a positive way to help him learn in the way that works best for him. Obviously, since he is already reading, you are up for the challenge.
ReplyDeleteHang in there! Whether or not the ped thinks there is a need for an evaluation, he/she will likely have some good advice to offer with regard to these things.
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