Friday, August 31, 2012

Flying Over The Cuckoo's Nest

I had been overwhelmed for a long time.  Depressed, anxious.  I kept saying to people, "I can't do this anymore," and bless you all, hearing "You can do it" helped.  But only for a while.  August 20th the knot in the end of my rope slipped apart and I fell.

I didn't want to die.  Well, alright, maybe I did.  But I couldn't leave P.  I self medicated with the intent to have a night of sleep that was not interrupted by night terrors, panic attacks, insomnia.  I just wanted to NOT BE for a while.  I popped 3 of my Klonopin and 8 benadryl on top of the 2 large glasses of wine I'd had.

And then I panicked.  What if I didn't wake up for P the next morning.  What if I couldn't stay awake?  What if I'd overdone it.  I just wanted to sleep.  But the panic won and I went and told my mom what I'd done.

My step-dad took me to the hospital and the rest of the night is a little fuzzy.  IVs, bloodwork, HIV test after nurse pricked herself, confusion.  I was admitted and had a babysitter all night.  I slept on and off.  New babysitter the next morning, a change of rooms, a lot of sleep.  I didn't want to talk to anyone.  My daytime babysitter was uber talkative. I wanted to tell her to shut the fuck up.  Seriously, after overdosing do I look like I want to talk?  Not so much.

The crisis center psychiatrist came to visit.  I had met him once before because of my trip to the crisis center.  Case worker.  I don't even know who else.

My choice: agree to be sent to a psychiatric hospital or be forced.  The outcome was the same, so I agreed.  I thought I'd only be in for a few days.  Not so much.  Try 9.

I hit rock bottom.  The bottom of the barrel.  I gave in to the pain, to the voice in my head telling me that I didn't want to be alive.  I cut my arm.  Big angry cuts.

I have never been so low.  So alone.  So scared.  My illness won that night.  I pray I never get that low again.  I want to tell you about my time "on the inside" but that will be another series of posts.

I want to be honest, open.  I overdosed.  I broke.  I hit bottom.  But I'm still here.  I'm alive and kicking.  Weakly kicking, perhaps, but I'm prepared to do the work necessary to get myself stable.

Every day is the first day of my life.


  1. Glad you are still with us. And very glad you are getting the help you need. You will be better for it!

  2. I am so dam glad to still have you. Glad you plan to stick around too!!

  3. Man what crap hon. Hang in there, I'm rooting for you.

  4. Oh honey...I was wondering about you. I am glad you are ok and are getting help...((HUGS)) mama.

  5. I was wondering about you...glad to see you are ok and getting better...((HUGS)) mama.

  6. Here with you. Listening.

    Take Care.

  7. Here with you. Listening.

    Please take care...

  8. Sending lots of love and support your way!

  9. Thank God you are ok. Thank God for your mam and step-dad that acted so promptly and you could be treated. Thank God you got help. You are not alone and in this respect so much luckier than others. You will come through this. I'll always be here.

  10. So glad you're ok. Thinking of you.

  11. I was wondering about you. Sad to hear about hitting rock bottom. Glad to hear you are resurfacing.
    We're here. We're listening. We want to help as much as we can.
    Be gentle to yourself.

  12. I am SO glad you are okay. Sending big hugs.


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