tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8343507762021483707.post670197755144372516..comments2023-07-11T14:47:52.398-04:00Comments on Out Of The Petri Dish...Into the Fire: On HoldKakunaahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09680945395324128951noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8343507762021483707.post-67682173305193699992014-01-13T18:59:48.317-05:002014-01-13T18:59:48.317-05:00George basically trained himself to use the potty....George basically trained himself to use the potty. Had few accidents, which we 'cured' with bribes (no more vacuuming if you don't go on the toilet NOW). And bribes are resorted to when he refuses to go when he should, before leaving the house, after waking up, and such. But I thunk we are over that as well. Just because he can, does not mean he is ready for it. Have patience. Don't push it. He will do it when he wants to and si ready for it, which is when you want him to. :-) <br />Seriously, let him lead, and the fights will vanish. George used the potty for two months during the summer, and since then, he only uses the toilet. Why would you want him to pee standing up so early? Do you need MORE messes to clean up? Let him sit for as long as possible, aim is an issue even for adults, and the last drops never make it into the bowl, so if ADULTS cannot manage it, why expect a little boy to do it? <br />Start small. First mornings, then the entire day, nappies only for naps and night time. He will go without napoy for naps pretty soon afterwards, and then he will decide when it is time to go nappiless for the night - but this might take a year or so, i hear. George wakes up dry most nights, but he sleeps in the top bunk bed, so for now, until going to the toilet during the night is easier, nappy on it is.<br />Good luck. Trust your kid more, if he does not want to throw the nappy just yet, let him be, and next time toilet training is on, it will be for real. <br />Reading?! Crazy! He is such an adorable feisty kid. :-) Minahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13148000699685037451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8343507762021483707.post-62596125240453667632014-01-13T12:02:31.914-05:002014-01-13T12:02:31.914-05:00Gen seriously, he can read and he's not even 3...Gen seriously, he can read and he's not even 3!! He is obviously stubborn and wan to to do it his way, of course he knows, he just doesn't want to do it for you, he will do it when he feels i's something for himself. With such a character, do you really want to fight it? I bet he will tell you one day out of the blue he has to pee and where did you put the potty. It's NOT something you are failing at, it's not something you have to have a time frame for, I think maybe you feel this way because he rolled when he was about 2 weeks old, he crawled and walked very early, but just let him be for now, so what if in potty training he is not the first of his class? Don't take it as a personal defeat because you gave up, you didn't give up, you realised he doesn't want to do it yet and you are respecting his will. Are you back in disposable or are you in cloth? Put him in cloth if you are on disposable, maybe the change will trigger something in his mind. Love.Franhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05717020378275616297noreply@blogger.com