tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8343507762021483707.post1164232122273081909..comments2023-07-11T14:47:52.398-04:00Comments on Out Of The Petri Dish...Into the Fire: Miserably HappyKakunaahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09680945395324128951noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8343507762021483707.post-78961154764602407622010-12-17T14:32:28.803-05:002010-12-17T14:32:28.803-05:00I think "Miserably Happy" sums it up qui...I think "Miserably Happy" sums it up quite nicely. I still smile and rub my belly after ever barf session.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8343507762021483707.post-38194016208651006952010-12-17T13:38:39.234-05:002010-12-17T13:38:39.234-05:00I learned (through my own NIGHTMARISH Pregnancy) t...I learned (through my own NIGHTMARISH Pregnancy) that even if I didn't want to complain, I had no choice, seriously. I also learned that it was ok to do it, it didn't mean that I wasn't SOOOOO grateful for the opportunity to be PG, to carry my own babies and BE PREGNANT. <br />I was still scared...I was still in denial for most of it, I pushed on and pushed through...but some really SHITTY stuff during my pregnancy and for me not to talk about it, in a safe space (like yu have here) is unfair to you and your feelings. <br /><br />hang in there....everything is going to be ok. And you can bitch and moan to ME ANY TIME...I mean that...I know. :)Kirhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17894442143508446312noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8343507762021483707.post-77754129165340134962010-12-17T03:16:08.101-05:002010-12-17T03:16:08.101-05:00I think that if you have worn the infertility badg...I think that if you have worn the infertility badge then you can complain as much as you like. We know you appreciate that you are pregnant. And you have had a shitty time of it.Claire https://www.blogger.com/profile/12150226708200368725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8343507762021483707.post-86445233602656807202010-12-16T22:22:01.303-05:002010-12-16T22:22:01.303-05:00Aw sweetie...a few thoughts: this is YOUR blog to...Aw sweetie...a few thoughts: this is YOUR blog to document YOUR journey. Your body is going through immense changes, and you've had a rough time. Pregnancy is like that for a LOT of people. It's what you're going through at this moment, and that is what blogging is. It doesn't mean you take anything for granted. You need a place to talk about your feelings, this jumbled mess of hormones, and the extraordinary experiences you've lived through.ryshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17152136745067431908noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8343507762021483707.post-50223923647139863702010-12-16T22:14:26.627-05:002010-12-16T22:14:26.627-05:00I have no problem with pregnant people complaining...I have no problem with pregnant people complaining - I'm not stupid I know pregnancy isn't all sunshine and frickin rainbows.<br /><br />What I do wish is that people who seem to do nothing BUT complain, stop and take a moment and occasionally throw in a moment of positivity, write about how they are revelling in being pregnant, enjoying SOMETHING about it. <br /><br />This is a broad statement that could apply to heaps of people, not you specifically my love, so don't panic.<br /><br />I will happily admit to days where I just can't read your blog - even though I KNOW you're having a hell of a rough ride throughout this pregnancy journey, some days I just can't read about it - I'm in a bad place and I just can't read about pregnancy complaints - that applies to anyone on my blog list, not just you.<br /><br />That's called self preservation and I KNOW you can relate to that!<br /><br />And no, we won't smack you, it's wrong to hit women, especially pregnant women ;-)<br /><br />~x~~stinkb0mb~https://www.blogger.com/profile/13933191141338188027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8343507762021483707.post-63878085105951169722010-12-16T17:31:52.518-05:002010-12-16T17:31:52.518-05:00Hey beautiful,
sorry for missng the last few posts...Hey beautiful,<br />sorry for missng the last few posts-I have been away! To a place with no internet!!<br />Anyway I KNOW you are very grateful for this pregnancy. Honestly, you really have had a hard time. So you share how you're feeling as much as possible, I love reading what is going on with you. We all know you love Cricket and remember how much it took to get here.<br />Take care :)AnxiousMummyto3https://www.blogger.com/profile/13249605078664682478noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8343507762021483707.post-707985750808636472010-12-16T15:06:39.742-05:002010-12-16T15:06:39.742-05:00i think (and i realize i am in a position of privi...i think (and i realize i am in a position of privilege here) that the right to complain about the parts of pregnancy that are hard -- and lord knows you've had your share and then some -- is not a right that should be reserved for fertile people. realizing how lucky it is to be pregnant shouldn't obligate anyone to pretend it's all sunshine and daffodils. <br /><br />at least, that's what i tell myself while whining about my poor old ribs....Bionic Baby Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14308646591208692676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8343507762021483707.post-68422540219999929002010-12-16T15:01:55.281-05:002010-12-16T15:01:55.281-05:00My DH told me after all we have gone through to ge...My DH told me after all we have gone through to get pregnant these last 11 years, he better not hear any complaining...LOL Sometimes it is warranted and definitely needed, especially when you feel like crap. I don't think any different of you, like the pp said, you have had a rough time...:) Not your fault...:)Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11161316989916400611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8343507762021483707.post-18739493110726172732010-12-16T15:00:16.751-05:002010-12-16T15:00:16.751-05:00I think what the blog you were reading was talking...I think what the blog you were reading was talking about is whining. People who go on about how horrible pregnancy is and how they wish they weren't pregnant. You are not whining. You are sharing your journey with us. And, it just so happens that your journey has been a particularly rough one. In fact, the fact that you haven't whined about all that you've been through is amazing to me! I mean, if anyone has the right to be upset with their pregnancy, it is someone who has been in constant immeasurable pain and has to wear a pump to keep from throwing up even more than halfway through. It shows that, no matter how frustrated you are with your body, you really do appreciate this. And, it's obvious how happy you are about it -- even with the craziness. Acting like everything is wonderful all the time is dishonest and misleading.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05382638658909144208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8343507762021483707.post-64583309371596924342010-12-16T14:48:39.887-05:002010-12-16T14:48:39.887-05:00Honey, you have had a rough go of it. You have ev...Honey, you have had a rough go of it. You have every right to bitch and moan and complain if you feel like it. I know you don't and aren't taking it for granted. Don't stress.Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10791317184998122691noreply@blogger.com